Ben has finally given up the bottle! I know, some of you moms are thinking, “oh my, he’s plenty old.” You’re probably right but for whatever reason I didn’t feel the need to yank it from him (mostly because he seemed like he really needed it) and now he pretty much decided, on his own, that he was done with it. He hasn’t had one since daycare on Friday and Melissa said he wasn’t very interested in it at all. I even packed them away.

I’ve been waiting to get the bottles off of the counter but I guess I can’t get too comfortable with that idea because in September we’ll be starting all over with them! We are getting pretty excited for our new arrival in the fall and crossing our fingers for a bedrest free pregnancy. Oh, I know, that isn’t likely but we sure can hope! I am feeling pretty good, just can’t seem to sleep at night. It has been 4 years with restless sleep what’s another couple?

We started a “Good Jar” and a “Not So Good Jar” for Jake today. Overall he’s really a good kid but he has a really hard time listening to us. Just keeps doing whatever it is (sitting on Ben, screaming, talking back, you name it) no matter what we do. So we are going to try this – pennies for good and pennies for not so good. If the good jar is full first he gets to pick out something new, if the not so good jar is full first he has to give up one of his favorite toys. I thought this was a great approach until while we were eating supper he asks me, “If I’m good, then bad, then good, then bad, both jars will be full at the same time. Then I can give one of my toys away to make room for my new one.” Not really what I had in mind!

Today the boys kept themselves busy riding bikes in the house. They were having a great time, crashing, falling over, ramming into everything. It’s time for spring – my boys can’t wait to get outside to play more.

Next week I have training Monday – Wednesday in St. Paul. Curt and the boys are going to come down and stay with me. We’re staying at the Raddison Waterpark of America. It should be a really good time. Curt isn’t sure what he’s going to do all day Tuesday with both boys so if any of you are looking for something to do, give us a call!

Ben doing what he loves to do - walk around in other people's shoes, especially Jake's, and now he's starting to want hats on while he does it.

Jake taught Ben this trick. I usually don't make too big of a deal about it because I remember how much fun it used to be. What's a little spilled milk right? Well, it might not have been such a good thing. Last week when we were out to eat, Ben did this and we had milk everywhere!

Riding bikes. Jake is still riding Ben's because the pedals on the Big Wheel are just a little too far away. Ben loves the big wheel because his Flintstone feet work great with it.

Another milk and straw experiment. Three straws together!

February 8th

Here's the scoop around the Feldewerd house.

Ben hasn't been sleeping the best since he had the stomach flu the week before Christmas. He sleeps but had been waking up a few times a night again. Kids have a way of getting off schedule and staying that way! So, we decided we would try taking the bunk beds apart and have Ben sleep in a big bed. I think it was last Wednesday, right before bed we took them apart and moved the crib out. Both boys were super excited. It amazes me how fast they catch on - already the next day at daycare he was wanting to sleep in the toddler bed. So far he loves it - I wouldn't say it have solved every sleep issue but it is so fun to see how excited he is about it and now when we say let's go "night night" he runs down the hall to his bed.

Ben has started liking books - a little. He has a small picture book from the Middendorf's that he really likes to sit and look through. The other night he was sitting with Curt and just like that we heard "tractor", neither of us had heard him say that before. Sometimes I can get him to repeat quite a few words, sometimes I'm not so lucky.

He's really starting to change into a 'big boy.' Wants to do everything that everyone else is doing. It is really fun to see all the wheels go around everyday, day after day.

We were sitting around on Saturday morning getting things ready and Jake told me his first joke. "Knock knock - who's there - Boo - Boo Who? - Well you don't have to cry about it." It was super cute and pretty funny. I didn't realize he was telling a joke at first, I was just playing along. He said Melissa taught it to him. I love stuff like that.

Saturday was our anniversary and a fun day for everyone. Grandma Marilyn picked Jake up 1pm to go to Elk River to the hotel with Aunt Amy and her gang. At 1:30 Jill came to babysit and Curt and I headed out for a day out. We went to see Gran Torino, had supper at Applebees, went shopping for a bit and then met up with some friends for the evening. It was a super day - everyone had fun and Mom and Dad had a 'date.'

Jake and Curt headed to the lake to do a little fishing this afternoon. I hope they catch at least a couple. Jake has been wanting to get out on the ice for the last few months.

That's all for now.

Picture Update

I'm not going to write much today - here's some new photos.